Discover the necessary tools for couples, husbands in particular, to love the way that God intended!
Men have often been portrayed in a negative light when it comes to their commitment and ability to love their spouses. However, this is an inaccurate representation, as men are fully capable of being deeply and genuinely devoted to their wives.
LOVE, GUARANTEED! provides husbands and wives with the knowledge of how to properly exercise love in their marriages. By drawing from the Bible, historical evidence, relationship theories, case studies, and research-based strategies, men and women can learn how to nurture and sustain love.
The writer also shares his personal testimony of how he and his wife overcame his infidelity to build an intimate and long-lasting relationship. In addition to his own story, the book also offers an 8-step guide to help spouses demonstrate their love and loyalty to each other.
With the help of LOVE, GUARANTEED, husbands and wives can gain the knowledge, understanding, and insight needed to make their marriage last.
Speaks to husbands primarily as to their role and responsibility as leader in the marriage.
Explains attachment theory and how that affects why we do and say the things we do.
Clears up a lot of misunderstandings.
Chapter 4 "Reprieve Rather Than Regret" which speaks to the importance of continuing to pursue your wife and deals with intimacy.
Chapter 8 "Love is Kind Rather than Unkind" speaks to the importance of forgiveness, softening one's heart and being a safe place.
We are to be the earthly safe haven for our wives. God calls us and equips us to step up, not back down. We are to be the safest person on earth for her, to be her safe haven, the person she turns to sexually, emotionally and spiritually. As a husband, I am to have unfailing commitment to her. I am to demonstrate that love is not fleeting, merely a feeling, nor is it blissfulness, but rather it is the willingness to endure hardship, and the fight against evil for her. It is the recurring pursuit of maintaining connection with her. Thus, even when I feel unloved, when my wants or needs are being denied or unmet, I am to guard my heart, purify my thoughts, and restrain my eyes.